Reach Out Speak Out! Domestic Violence Thrives In Silence You don't have to live afraid.Don't continue to deal with your abuse alone.REACH OUT. SPEAK OUT.There is hope for recovery and a happy life. Reach Out Speak Out is structured to help the women within the faith-based community. Have you been called names, insulted or continually criticized? Does he not trust you and act jealous or possessive? Emotional Abuse can affect everyone...DV does not have to be physical abuse. Monitors where you go, who you call and who you spend time with. Threatens to hurt you, the children, your family or your pets. Tries to control your life. Are you afraid to express your thoughts?