We believe in an illusion in our minds. It starts when we are children. How many of us just knew that Santa Claus was going to come and visit our home on Christmas Eve. That the elves were busy all year long in the North Pole making that special giftthat we will want in December.
As we become adults are we not looking and waiting for the same thing in a life partner? Yes, it is very possible that our hopes and dreams of the special someone will enter into our lives. Never give up your dreams. But….but…. We must also understandthat we need to look at the realities of life and the realities of human beings. We are all built differently, and it is imperative for each of us to wait and see if what we see in the beginning of a relationship is real. As children we wait and wait andwait for that special date in December. Why is it as adults that we want to rush the process? Are we wishing for something that does not exist in a particular person or within ourselves?