It may take years or even decades for you to become aware you don’t look like the person you were before that amazing relationship. I am not talking about our outward or physical looks. Those fade away and are a natural Godly progression of life. I am talking about your mental and emotional looks. Who you are now with your choices and through your mental and emotional thought process.
Were you a positive and confident person before the relationship? How did people see you? Do you still feel that way?
Is it time to finally sit down and think though the current situation? Who were you? Who are you today? Are you happy with what you are feeling and seeing about yourself? These are difficult questions and are not resolved in a few short minutes. You are worth the time to take and begin this new year. Pray and ask God to direct your thoughts. Then listen.
