How can we learn from the partner that is no longer equal with us, that now knows you so well that they use those same things that are/were important to you and turn those into sadness because they make sure you don’t get them or something is messed up or destroyed? What did we do? We fixed it, we went and made it right because it is important to us. But wait, although we may go back and do those things for us, also stop and write them down and think of those things that are still important to you as a human being. How can someone that claims to love, honor, cherish you literally know you so well but use it for evil.
You want to begin this year and become the person you were and still want to be that person? Set boundaries first. Write down your boundaries and speak with a trained counselor. Remember, God created us as individuals first. We should still be that person in a healthy relationship. If your choices, character and boundaries have changed and now you are asking yourself who you are, please don’t go into the month of February without asking yourself if your relationship is healthy or if someone is manipulating you…..start writing……..
