by Jan Porter | May 2, 2023 | Domestic Violence, Leaving
WEEK THREE…Jan Porter I like to refer back to the book of James. If I feel myself slipping back into codependency or my thoughts are how to “correct/help/fix” someone else, I go back and look at myself to make sure I am in God’s will. Then you will not have time...
by Jan Porter | May 2, 2023 | Domestic Violence, Leaving
WEEK FOUR…Jan Porter Now that you realize that you are codependent and you are working not to be codependent, there is another ugly matter that pops through called Boundaries. You don’t have any! The people you have been trying to “fix” have crossed many of your...
by Jan Porter | Feb 22, 2021 | Uncategorized
Who is that person that you are living with? 1. Can you count on your partner to be the same at home as they are in public? 2. Do they treat you the same as if it was just the two of you in the room? 3. Does this sound like both of you? Be kind one to another 4. Can...
by Jan Porter | Feb 15, 2021 | Domestic Violence
Biblical Guidelines for Dating Before going out on a date with someone, think about these verses. If your date does not demonstrate and treat you like the Bible says they should, there shouldn’t be a second date. 1 Corinthians 15:33 (NIV) 33 Do not be misled: “Bad...
by Jan Porter | Feb 8, 2021 | Domestic Violence
DATING VIOLENCE What if we didn’t wait to tell people about the warning signs of domestic violence when they got married and in a legal arrangement. What if we educated everyone of the warning signs and what domestic violence is before our children start dating. Did...