Finally, choosing the right organizations to seek help from is paramount. Healthy domestic violence organizations seek to
empower the victim instead of controlling them. You can easily become a victim of organizational abuse. The same principle applies to your place of worship. Choose a place of worship that places the sanctity of life above the sanctity of marriage.


Remember till death do us part
doesn’t mean until my spouse kills me.


Pastor Neely sits on the Advisory Committe for Reach Out Speak Out, FPEDV ( Florida Program Ending Domestic Violence, Hillsborough County Domestic Violence Task Force, Faith counselor for the Spring of Tampa Bay , is the lead pastor atNew Millennium Community Church and is the author of Black Eyes and Sweet Talk